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Posted by GPdI Sejahtera Online Team   
Wednesday, 09 March 2011 12:39

Dear Friends,

I just wanna share you some of my thoughts about something called Mandate(Amanat), Responsibility and the Implementation in between, but not because that I'm smarter(if anyone thinks that I'm smart than they should get their heads straight lol) or anything but pure sharing.

1st of all as some of you already know I have 5 dogs that I love very much & consider them as my children(I know some of you may think this as freak but doglovers understands the point). I think when someone has decided to mantained & foster a form of life even with only a pet at the same they give the consent or agreement with God to bound themselves with a mandate from God to be responsible with that form of life. Thats only a pet, but how about a human form of life? a child for an example, I think the equation multiply by literally a Zillion. For my friends that are plan to be or a few months behind and or just become a parent I just want you to bare with me that having a children is a monstrous responsibility because as parents you are solemnly bound to the responsibility on the kind of person your children will grow into & you will be hold accountable on how you treat, raise, or educate your children. I know that we are familiar with the common terms or an understanding that when your children reach a certain age they are responsible for their own actions & you as parents cannot be hold accountable for any of it. But if you think deeper don't you realize that how your children behave is based on how their mind works and how their mind works is based on their life experience and that experience is based on how you as parents treated them? Its like a piece of paper or a desktop computer, its what you wrote on that paper that determines the responds of the readers, its the kind of file and the size of file also the intensity of the mantainance that you store and you do on that PC that determines on how that PC performs. Back to the issue in hand; I mean, they do responsible for their own action but you are also responsible and will be held accountable by God on how they become what they become that dealt all those actions.

Some Of The Worst Things Have Been Done With The Best Intentions

I want to relate the sentece that I bolded above with the word called Implementation. Some of you may ask what the hell am I talkin' about? well we'll get to that in a second, but bare with me for a moment. I think all of you are familiar with names such as; Adolf Hitler, Pol Pot, Joseph Stalin, Saddam Hussein. They are great leaders in their times and in their countries, they have(most of all initially) the best intentions for their people but as we learn from history what they have in common is along the way other than they forgot about their initial intentions but also they screwed up theirImplementation on how they suppose to execute their plans to achieve all those Best Intentions. And the relevance of this paragraph to the topic of this note is; you my friends as parents should get you priority in order on how you implement your plans of the best intentions that you have for your children. Achievements have to be rewarded, failure to comply with things in order have to be punished but please....please don't over do it! Buying a smart phone for a toddler just because that he got an A in a drawing class or sending a teenager on a plane to a holiday in Paris just because she passes good grades on 1 semester? is like giving a $100 tip for a $5 sandwhich! or, slapping a 5 year old on the face just because he accidentally drops a ceramic plate, punching an adoleson on the stomach just because she doesn't clean up her dishes? is like shooting a mosquito with 155mm self propelled howitzer! Do whats right for your children because you have been given a mandate from God to take care 1 or maybe more of His divine creations because there comes a time when its too late to do so and there's nothing you can do about it and you're regret it, in the end you will be held responsible by the 'Big Man' for the 'defects' that may've caused by the poor implementation of raising your children(physical & personality).

From me; Rey Ronld, For you; My Love ones, But Especially For your Children.

Have A Nice Day, & God Bless

 

 

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0 #4 writer 2011-08-25 11:11
@jessfortress
the battle I am totally ready, its the war that worries me :P
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0 #3 JJ 2011-03-23 17:02
:lol: :D
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+1 #2 jessfortress 2011-03-17 09:05
It's really a great article thou.. so.. the question for the writer will be.. when will you get married my brother?.. seems like you're ready for battle.. :lol:
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0 #1 JJ 2011-03-15 22:23
;-) Very good Sir,.. It will be very nice n useful for parent. I think most of them should read this!
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